Insights I gained from the Video,
Skills are anything that helps you get things done or makes something better. Hard skills are like the technical stuff the things you learn to do a specific job, without needing to work with others. Soft skills, on the other hand, are all about people, how we work with or alongside others.
The cool thing is that soft skills make your hard skills even better. It's not just that they're there, they actually boost the value of what you do. Think about it, if you're a great coder hard skill but you can't explain your code or work with your team soft skills, your code might not be very useful.
The main idea is that soft skills always involve interacting with others, whether it's team, the people we are working for, or the people who will use our product. Soft skills mean things like getting people on board with our ideas, working well with others, leading, and understanding what people need and feel.
The author points out that people often talk about soft skills, but they don't always explain what they are. It's tricky because soft skills look different in different jobs and situations. It's not enough to say communication skills. You need to know what kind of communication listening, asking questions, etc. when to use it, and how to use it.
The last important point is that you should think about how you use your soft skills. Just like with hard skills, it helps to think about how we talk to others, how we handle feedback, and how well you understand other people's points of view. Knowing your soft skills what you're good at and what you need to improve is the key to getting better at them.
My Perspective: Which Soft Skills Do I Use Most Frequently in Daily Life..
Here are several I frequently use:
Communication includes listening, explaining, asking clarifying questions, and changing my tone or manner based on who I'm communicating with.
Empathy / perspective taking – attempting to comprehend another' perspectives, feelings, or needs, particularly while assisting or answering to another person's query.
Problem-solving entails not just technical skills, but also recognising what the true problem is sometimes via understanding people's needs or limits, making decisions, and weighing options and consequences.
Collaboration is collaborating with others, coordinating tasks, and incorporating input.
Adaptability / flexibility – navigating between settings e.g. different subjects, different and improving how I respond when new information becomes available.
Was I aware I used these soft skills so frequently?
Not always consciously. Some skills come naturally for example, listening and adjusting. Others I notice in review or when someone provides opinions. For example, I may be aware that I am engaging in a lot of perspective-taking when attempting to explain something, but I do not always name it as such. So, somewhat conscious, partly subconscious.
Yes, I basically agree with his concept, but with the awareness that "communication" can be direct with other people or indirect/pre-interaction preparing, reflecting, anticipating, as well as internal interaction (inside oneself), which facilitates outside relations.